…go to any writing or self publishing forum and you’ll find people complaining about something or other.
‘Amazon’s ripping us off.’
‘My competition ripped off my book idea.’
‘I’m a better writer than the ones on the top ten list.’
‘I can’t believe people are buying that puzzle book….it sucks!’
And on and on it goes.
All things they have no control over.
It’s like driving down the road, and expecting everyone to follow the rules of the road like you do.
Sure, you can spend all day screaming through the windscreen, at the jack ass that cut you off, but wouldn’t it be better to focus your time on something you are in control of? – Like getting yourself home safely.
Because you really have no control of anything, but what you’re doing.
Jeff Bezos isn’t going to change Amazon for you.
People are always going to rob ideas.
And the cream doesn’t always rise to the top of the bestsellers list.
Better to focus on doing a better job, getting in front of more new people, and staying away from the complainers.
Anything out of your control, is out of your control, and burning up a few innocent brain cells because you can’t control it is a lost cause.
Keep your eyes and mind on your own driving lane this week.
Now, if you’re looking for an easy way to get in front of more people, and something I still use every day, I’d go here…
Barry J McDonald.
PS – Because you can’t be in enough new places this year.
Now go put those racing blinkers on.
…Marcus Aurelius once said that folk where strange.
Most of us love ourselves more than other people, but care more about their opinion over our own.
I’d add to that, we also think that everyone else is a lot cleverer or talented than we are.
I told myself that lie for the longest time.
Everyone could write, but me.
Everyone could create a product, but me.
Everyone could have a membership site, but me.
Everyone was an expert on my topic, but me.
Seeing these words now on ‘digital paper’ you can see how ridiculous those thoughts were.
But in my head, they were as true as gravity. – And just as hard to break free from.
Everyone was more talented, better, and their opinion mattered more than my own.
Who I thought I was back then, I don’t know?
But I was always the one at the back of the pack. Never able to run alongside the people I admired, or envied.
Maybe you’re thinking those things right now?
Maybe that’s why you’re not pushing yourself?
The world’s more talented than you are.
Who are you to teach, preach, motivate, or inspire? You’re just, well….’you.’
But when get past that crap you’re telling yourself, and do the stuff you want to do, you realize that you have something to offer.
Yes, even you.
The world isn’t as talented, or as clever as you make them out to be. – They wish they were.
And somewhere out there, there’s someone struggling with something you could be teaching them to do.
But you’ve got to go do it.
And as for the opinions, who cares about anyone’s opinion but your own.
If you’re making someone’s life better, that’s all you need to focus on.
Keep that in mind when you’re doing your work this week. – And not the mental record you’ve been listening to.
Barry J McDonald.
PS – Have a good one.