It’s a common fear that prevents individuals from taking action and pursuing their dreams. We often find ourselves avoiding risks and playing it safe because we are afraid of being criticized or made fun of. But let me tell you, I’ve been there too. I know what it’s like to want to keep yourself safe and shielded from the opinions of others.
I remember when I wrote my first fictional book. I was hesitant to publish it because I knew that as soon as it was out there, I couldn’t control the reception it would receive. The fear of judgment from strangers held me back. I was worried about what people on the other side of the world, people I would never come in contact with, would think of me. But the truth is, most of the time, we build up imaginary scenarios in our heads. We assume that everyone is paying attention to us when in reality, they aren’t.
The number of people who would actually criticize you is tiny, especially when you’re just starting out. When you have a small following, only a fraction will actually voice their opinions, and it’s usually a small percentage of that fraction who are negative. Instead of fixating on these few voices, we need to shift our focus to those who enjoy and support our content. These are the people who matter.
It’s like being a footballer. Imagine scoring a goal and celebrating by running to the opposing fans, desperately seeking validation from them. We know that the opposing fans are unlikely to celebrate our success. We should celebrate with our own supporters, the ones who genuinely appreciate and enjoy what we do. Why waste time and energy seeking approval from those who will never give it?
Yes, criticism and judgment will always exist. No matter what you do, you cannot please everyone. Even the most generous acts may be received with negativity. But here’s the thing: you shouldn’t let that stop you. Focus on what truly makes you happy. If recording videos, writing books, or creating podcasts brings you joy, then do it, regardless of what others may think.
Furthermore, it’s crucial to remember that the critics often have too much time on their hands. They are not focused on their own goals or projects, and so they try to bring others down to their level. They want to distract you, make you doubt yourself, and halt your progress. Don’t let them. Their criticism says more about their own lives and insecurities than it does about you.
So, instead of allowing the fear of criticism to hold you back, embrace it. Accept that it is a natural part of growth and success. Decide that you will not let the opinions of others dictate your actions. Take a moment to reflect on what truly matters to you and pursue it with passion and determination.
In the end, if you’re always going to be judged and criticized, wouldn’t it make sense to do what you want to do anyway? Prioritize your own happiness and fulfilment. Don’t look back on your life with regrets because you let fear dictate your choices. Most people aren’t even thinking about you as much as you think they are.
I encourage you to unlock your potential by embracing criticism and rising above it. Break free from the limiting beliefs that hold you back. Surround yourself with a supportive community that appreciates and celebrates your growth. Believe in yourself and your abilities, and don’t let the fear of judgment hinder your progress.
Remember, the only person who needs to be happy with your choices is you. Embrace the journey, embrace the challenges, and embrace the critics because they are simply a part of your path to success. Have a lovely day and don’t let the fear of judgment stop you from shining bright.
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